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Austin on January 9, 2012 at 06:12 PM said:

This kid keeps making fun of my voice and says it like a little girl what should i do?

Austin,
There may be a few things you can do. One, tell him you were born with it, you can't do anything about it, it may change as you get older, and knock off the bullying because you don't like it. Two, you can make fun of it yourself and speak in even a higher voice and ask if that's better. Three, and I hesitate to recommend this, but it does usually work: find something he may be self-conscious of and point out he has something you can make fun of too, and you will if he keeps it up. That's what I call reverse bullying, therefore I have a difficult time suggesting it, and only as a last resort.

not saying name on January 7, 2012 at 08:51 AM said:

dear addam
a lot of people are saying i like a guy when i dont it makes me upset i tell them to stop bulling me. i tell my mom and she said if i dont do anything teacher involved she will. should i? i tell these people to stop horassing me. next time i want to tell the teacher but they will call me a tattle tale. what can i do. please im desperate

Dear Not Saying Name,
When you are being bullied and you tell, that's NOT being a tattle tale, you are reporting. Let them call you a tattle tale if they want, because if it will get the bullying to stop, you shouldn't care. Your mom is right. So, bottom line, tell the bullies that if they don't stop saying these things about you, you WILL tell the teacher. If it continues - tell - but be sure you tell your teacher exactly what they are saying and indicate that it really makes you upset because it isn't true. Also, continue to keep your mom informed. Because if it keeps up, she may have to contact the school. Don't let the bullying continue under any circumstances.

no name on January 6, 2012 at 03:19 PM said:

i have a boy in my class that says me bad words to me and kick me tell me wahat to do :(

Dear No Name,
I am sorry to hear that. Here are some things you can do. When he says bad words, look him straight in the face and say, "I don't like it when you say bad words, and I want you to stop." Say it like you mean it. If he says, "tough, I won't stop", tell him it's not nice and if he keeps it up you will tell a teacher or supervisor. If he says that you are a tattle tale, tell him yes you are a tattle tale because he's being a bully. When he kicks you say, "OW" real loud. The teacher or supervisor will hear it and ask what happened. You say you were kicked and it hurt, then tell who did it. See how this works, and let me know if you still have a problem. Good luck.

Donna on December 31, 2011 at 10:43 AM said:

Hi mr.Duy, I used to go to hermes where you visit alot and I love cool carl and i was wondering if you are being bullied how do you use I messages? :)


Hi Donna,
Happy New Year! Hermes is a very neat school. Sometimes adults are bullied, but I'm happy to say I am not. Thanks for loving Cool Carl. Regarding using I messages, they are tied in with your server. Mine is AOL. You'll have to ask a parent how to use yours. Have a nice vacation.

Mr. Duy

Andy on December 22, 2011 at 06:20 PM said:

adam apple I am getting bullied what should I do?

Andy,
First off, don't blame yourself. Some kids do. Secondly, is it from one child or are many doing it? Third, is it just words, or are you being physically bullied too? Here's what you do. Adults need to know what's going on, but they need information... I call it ammunition. For a few days, write down what is happening, and who is doing it. Once you have enough "ammunition" you need to talk to your parents about what is going on. Show them the list. If you can handle it yourself by just telling someone to "back off" or they'll get into trouble for bullying, try that first. If it is serious enough already, your parents will have to contact the school and share with authority what you have put down in writing. Hopefully between the school and your parents, you can get it to stop. Don't stop trying until it stops. Also, don't think it'll go away after a while by not doing anything, because chances are it won't. You don't deserve to be bullied, no one does.

paige g on December 18, 2011 at 12:09 PM said:

i am having truble on "R U A bullie/" i cant click the numbers.

RUA Bully isn't set up to click the numbers and add the score for you. You'll have to add them up on your own. Good luck, but I doubt you are one.


Mr. Duy

paige g on December 18, 2011 at 12:04 PM said:

when are you coming to st.paul lutheran again? i really want you to come soon!

Paige,
I will be there soon ... right after Christmas vacation on Thursday Jan. 19th unless there is a conflict with the school schedule -- then it will be close to that date.

paige g on December 18, 2011 at 12:02 PM said:

i dont know what to get for my step sister for christmas. she is in 6th grade. i dont know what to get my step brother ether! he is in 8th grade. what should i do?

That could be a tough one. How about a gift certificate at McDonalds or another fast food place or a store where they can get what they like? That should make it easy because they can make the decision. Another thing would be to ask your parents what they think and let them help you.

fernando on December 13, 2011 at 04:00 PM said:

mr.uy i think being a bully is bad two students are mean to each other and one time one cry what should we do

Fernando,
If you feel safe about it, get to know one of them and help in keeping them from being mean to each other. Help them by not being together so they won't be mean. If you don't want to get involved you need to let a teacher know.
Mr. Duy

allisa on December 10, 2011 at 12:14 PM said:

hi mrsduy im allisa and I want to be famouse when im grow up but my sister keep saying I wont and that makes me very very and very sad and kinda angry and she keeps saying that I have a wierd and ugly voice I wish I could be famouse but my sister is right I think Im about to cry

Allisa,
Oh come on Allisa, you let your sister decide for you whether you can be famous or not? What's with that? You make that decision, not her, so pay no attention. Don't be so sensitive, and don't be so ready to give up because of what she says. I'm sure you've heard of Lady Gaga. Kids bullied and made fun of her, and look where she is today. We can't all be famous, but if famous people listened to those who made fun or said they couldn't do it, no one would be famous. And stop that "about to cry" thing. Mr. Duy

JAELY on December 9, 2011 at 09:36 PM said:

This girl in my school keeps bulling me and doesn't stop what should I do.

Jaely,
First start out simple. Look her straight in the eye and tell her to stop (tell her what she is doing that is bullying you) because you don't like it. If she says she won't, tell her again. Next, if she keeps it up, start to write down what she is doing. Then, after writing three of four times what she is doing, tell this person you are going to show the list to your teacher or the principal and your parents. Finally, if it still keeps up, your parents and the school should get involved. Let me know if you continue to have a problem after all this.

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